2018

Last day of 2018...

Thank God for my wife..
Thank God for my family members..
Thank God for placing here in Nilai...

Without divine intervention, I would not be who I am today...

Dear, you are different because God is unique..add oil..
Love you

Encouragement 4.0

Your encouragement is priceless;
Your encouragement is endless;
Your encouragement is sacrificial;
Your encouragement is loving...

Dear dear, thank you so much for your encouragement...
Love you... (one deep one four)...

Encouragement 3.0

Your encouragement reminds me...God's grace is more than enough...
Your encouragement reminds me...God knows..
Your encouragement reminds me...God is working...
Your encouragement reminds me...God is real...

Thank you dear dear..
Love you..

Encouragement 2.0

Encouragement inspires us to grow..
Encouragement words can a platform to heal...
Encouragement parties learn to be merciful and gracious..
Encouragement brings hope...

Hence, let us encourage one another..

Dear dear, jiayou..
Love you..
Don't give up.. give your best!!..

Encouragement 1.0

Daily encouragement is the norm of our lives now...
Encouragement inspires..
Encouragement pursues..
Encouragement reminds..
Encouragement builds..
Encouragement sustains...

Dear dear,
Thank you for the daily encouragement..
Love you..

Meeting you

Meeting you is special;
Meeting you is memorable;
Meeting you is touchable;
Meeting you is desirable;

Dear dear...
Love you..

Push

Pushing ahead is an imperative for us;
We gotta to push ourselves;
Our present does not represent our true self..

Hence we need to push and to grow..
Walk out from our comfort zone..

Dear dear,
Add oil..
Love you..

FB Friendship Day

FB reminded us "our friendship day"
As I recalled some of the moments.. I can see that without God, friends and family members support.. we will never be like today...

Dear dear,
Thank you for your care..
Thank you for your love...
Thank you for your presence..

Love you..

Knowing

Knowing is better than unknowing.
Knowing has a power to unlocking..
Knowing leads to informing...
Knowing enhances process..
Knowing broadens horizons...

If knowing is being practice...

Dear dear, let us continue to know...
Love you...

What...

What to write...
What to post...
What is inside my heart?

My heart keep telling me to do something different...
My heart keep prompting me to work on my previous experience...

For your birthday... although i can't be with you, my dear to celebrate this wonderful annual occasion...

Hopefully something different will be great day to you...

Love you...

New? Or New...

A new job scope but old position and similar salary... what can we do? Nothing... because it is their man-make structure that cause to be so inflexible...

A new job scope but previous position, similar salary and lesser workload.. still struggles... we are human...

A new job scope, i just do my best... I don't care what is happening... i give my best to the Lord...

Which perspective job do you prefer, dear dear?

Add oil in your new work environment...

Love you...

Better

I keep on pondering the idea or suggestion of better...
What constitutes better?
How to define better?
Why better exist in humanity? Is better profoundly founded in the Bible?
While we are chasing after better things, any things that we need to sacrifice?

Dear dear... through you.. i know God.. my life keep on growing..

I'm not sure i am able to give you better life, but i will try my best to keep us growing in Christ...

Thank you.. love you..

Together 10.0

When people asked, do you miss her?
What if I'm used to one-man life? Or I am the type of person that loves solitude?

My answer is straightforward. If i do not miss her, I am not a human. Not to mention whether I am Christian or not.

One-man life or solitude. To be honest, if I am the person who one-man life, I will not asked for a marriage. Solitude is a must regardless single or marriage. I would say, whether one person or with your partner, we will experience differently..

Togetherness is unique and mysterious..

Dear dear, love you..

Together 9.0

Together is every couple deserves..
Together is every couple seeks..
Together is every couple endures...
Together is every couple dreams...
Together is...can be interpreted different...

For us, together is our opportunity to be physical, intimate and caring..

Dear dear, love you..
Miss you...

Together 8.0

There will be a feeling of missing when we are not together physically...
There will be a feeling of uncomfortable when one of us not feeling well...
There will be a feeling caring when we are far apart...

It is irony feeling...

But i know...this journey and process are able to train us to be more loving, caring and understandable...

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you..

Together 7.0

Togetherness means discussion...
Togetherness reflects discernment from at least 2 areas..
Togetherness implied we will come to the best decision..
Togetherness brings us to an understanding...

Dear dear...
Jiayou...

Love you...

Together 6.0

Together reflects our need of dependency...
Together reflects our imperfection...
Together reflects our shortcoming..
Together reflects our weakness...

Hence,
Togetherness bond our trust..
Togetherness joined our heart..
Togetherness process our shortcoming and weakness into better person..
Togetherness is always there..

Thank you my dear..jiayou..

Love you..

Together 5.0

Sometimes uncertainty drives up to question our future...
Sometimes temporal adjustment creates doubt for long term...
Sometimes our decision leads to many options...

But I know we are together...
Together in everything...
Feeling,
Values...

Dear dear... i believe God leads...
Jiayou..
Love you...

Together 4.0

These 2 days, you are sleeping and resting next to me..
I heard your snoring...
I heard you...
I see your face...
I touch your hair...
I smell your body...
I gently kiss you...

I feel at ease and peaceful..

How good is the feeling of togetherness...

But you are leaving later and continue your journey and process becoming better individual..
Your sacrifices is incomparable...
Your sacrifices is unimaginable...
You do it for the sake of me (family)...

Yet I know you will be with me...

Dear dear, thank you so much..
I love you..

Together 3.0

The unique philosophy of together is:
We are imperfect
We are dependent
We are emotionally attached

The uniqueness of together in Christ:
God's love
God's hope
God's purpose

Dear jiayou
May our togetherness brings blessing to more people..

Together 2.0

Togetherness in physical body;
Togetherness in mind,
Togetherness in soul;
Togetherness in spirit,

Togetherness can be shape through times;
Togetherness can be sharpen through challenges,
Togetherness can be strengthened through trials...

Dear dear, I am thankful for togetherness heart...
Love you...

Together 1.0

It is good to be with you
It is pleasant to be with you
It is joyful to be with you
It is exciting to be with you.

You always bring laughter to me
Inspiration..
Encouragement...

Thank you my darling..
I love you so much...

Missing you 11.0

Going through the motions...
Where i can still recalled your presence in this place vividly...
Going through the motions..
Where i try to memorize your expression inside me...
Going through the motions...
Where i know you are with me in spirit...

Dear dear, i know you are with me in the prayers..
Miss you
Love you...

#see you in 2 days...

Missing you 10.0

At times, the feeling of missing is really uncomfortable..
This feeling caused you to move up and down...
This feeling tells you...

How important is my wife to me...
How precious is my wife to me...

Dear dear,
Miss you like crazy...
I know our short term separation will help us to grow to be a better couple one day...

Jiayou..love you

Missing you 9.0

It is really difficult emotionally and mentally whenever we need to bid goodbye...
It is really challenging to hold on to the tears when bidding goodbye...
It is an uphill task whenever I need to walk away from you...

We need to use days to recover back our "soul"... lol...
We still need to work as that is our responsibility..

It's tough...
It's exhausting...
It's complicating...

But God loves us..
He takes care of us...

Dear dear, love you so much..
Jiayou...

P/s: continue to miss one another bah... lol... 😘

Keep on rolling

Let keep it rolling..
Rolling in the experiences of life..
Rolling in the love of God...
Rolling in the affirmation...
Rolling in the realities of life...
Rolling in the courage...
Rolling in the purpose of life..

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you..

Journey 1.0

Journey requires stamina,
Journey requires knowledge,
Journey requires faith,
Journey require perseverance,

Our journey requires communication...
Our journey requires understanding...

Our journey is going to be interesting..

Jiayou dear dear...
Love you

10th year

Time flies...

10 years of understanding..
10 years of challenges...
10 years of blessings...
10 years of lessons...
10 years of journey..
10 years of process...
10 years of shaping...
10 years of moulding..
10 years of encouraging....

Dear dear...
Let us anticipate another 10 years to come...
More to come...

Love you (one deep one sea)...
Lol..

Missing you 8.0

Another 2 days..
Able to meet one another...
Your presence will bring laughter;
Your presence will bring meaningful days;
Your presence will bring encouragement;
Your presence will bring "bullyness";
Your presence will inspire one another...

Dear dear, i will wait patiently...
Love you...

Clear 3.0

Sometimes we are worried,
Sometimes we doubt...
Sometimes we feel at lost..
Sometimes we feel restless...
Sometimes we feel vehemently directless...
Sometimes feeling of giving up of asking...

But as we draw forward...
Its seem God through different scenes telling us His will...
Let us be sensitive...
Let us draw closer to Him...

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you...

Clear 2.0

Step by step, we move forward...
With boldness,
With courage,
With excitement,
With faith,
Yeah... with doubt (without doubt, there will be not be able to recognize our lives with breakthrough)
With struggles (without struggles, we will not able to discern/differentiate new experience)

Step by step, our future looks more clear now...

By faith, we steer ourselves forward...

Dear dear, jiayou..
Love you...

Working life 1.0

We are apart due to different reasons...

One that cannot be ignore is WORK..

We are experiencing differences in our working life...
Working life can be awesome, but it can be grasping for breathe as well...
Working life can be fruitful, but it can be challenging one...
Working life can be enjoyable, but it can be stressful...

What I know is...God with us.. He loves you...

We are miles apart, but our heart draw much closer than before...

Dear dear... jiayou...
Love you...

Missing you 7.0

It does not feel nice when I know I am returning back to Malaysia...
It does not feel nice at all when I can't accompany you to your office...
It does not feel nice when I am not able to give you a good massage when you are exhausted...
It does not feel nice at all when I could not bring you for doctor's consultation...

It does not feel nice at all when my plane touched down at KLIA...

Coz I miss you, dear dear...

But I know the time will be short... countdown to meet you has been my daily routine...

I don't mind...

Coz I just want to meet my dear dear..
Love you...

Short trip

Although it is partial study trip and short trip,
Let's ensure it will be an excellent trip...
Let's ensure it will be a memorable trip...
Let's ensure it will be an enjoyable trip...

Dear dear, I am excited for this trip...
Love you...
Miss you...

Clear 1.0

Will it be clearer as we move along?
Its gonna be a great breakthrough if it become clearer path..

Will it be smoother as we move along?
It will be an opportunistic if we claim that...

Will it be clear?
I am not sure, but I know He holds the future...

Dear dear, jiayou..
Its going to be clear soon..
Love you..

HK Trip

Countdown 18days to HK trip...
Only 3 days, but I am eager for it...
Only 3 days, but I am going to appreciate our time and bonding...
Only 3 days, yet its going to be our fullest trip...
Only 3 days, it will be full of memories...

Dear dear, are you excited??..
Jiayou dear dear...
Miss you so much...

Missing you 6.0

The feeling of missing..

Sometimes the feeling is uncomfortable...
Sometimes the feeling seemingly lost in direction...
Sometimes the feeling is unbearable..
Sometimes the feeling is unjustifiable...

Yet, i know... its gonna be a short term...

Dear dear.. jiayou..
Love you so much...
Miss you...

June...

Entering into month of June...
Wow, time flies...
We accepted challenge being apart..
We acknowledged challenge is tough..
We withstand challenges thrown at us..
We overcome challenges with faith and confidence...

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you

Be Strong 2.0

Nothing can compares to our intercession for one another, because its bring us to God... trust and hope..

Nothing can compares to our worries for one another, because we are husband-wife relationship... love...

Nothin can compares to our longing for one another, because it is a norm for a couple... believe...

Nothing...

Be strong and rooted in God and His Word...

Jiayou dear dear...

Love you...

Missing you 5.0

We do miss each other after many days of together...
We miss hug hug...
We miss scratching...
I miss your tummy..you miss my fingers...
We miss intimacy...
We miss holding hands...

But i know all these missing will be over one day...

Dear dear...
Jiayou...
Miss you and love you..

Be Strong 1.0

When the waves become unbearable, be strong because you are not alone...
When the winds blow insanely, be strong because God's presence even stronger...
When the thunderstorms strike unexpectedly, be strong because the Spirit comforts us..

Dear dear, regardless what kind of disasters that we are facing...
Be strong..

Love you..
Miss you...
Jiayou

Future 2.0

I believe the One who directs our future with lead us..
I believe the One who taught us in our experience with bring us through..
I believe the One who enable us to go through our previous stage will see us through...

We just need faith;
We need to trust;
We need to overcome doubts...

Dear dear,
Jiayou..
Love you...

Nearer 4.0

Yeah, waiting for my flight to Singapore..
Yeah, waiting excitedly to see my dear wife..
Yeah, waiting patiently for my flight to take off...
Yeah, waiting courageously for next step of our lives..
Yeah, waiting...

But it is getting nearer...

Dear dear..
see you later...
Love you..
Miss you...

Missing you 4.0

When I don't say I miss you, it does not mean I don't mean it...
When I don't say I love you, it does not reflect the true meaning of my loyalty..

I am afraid if I say I miss you.. I will not allow you to go back to Singapore..
I am afraid if I say I love you... I will shed my tears in front of you...

I want to fasten your seat belt everytime you are on the plane,
I want to protect you whenever you are at the airport...

I want to accompany you, who does not know this is the best choice...
I want to be with you, but... time will tell us..

Dear dear, when you are tired.. take a break...
When you are at loss, think of Jesus and me laa.. lol...
Love you ooo...
Miss you ooo...

Future 1.0

What is our plan?
What is your plan?

Ultimately, what is God's plan?

Let us seek His face.
Evaluate our previous thoughts, decisions and experiences...
Think of our present condition...

Make a wise decision...

Dear dear,
Jiayou... love you

Nearer 3.0

Who does not want to be near to their wife?
Who does not know the advantage of having their wife next to them?
Who does not know the intimacy they will enjoy with their wives?
Who does not know the love and care from their respective wives?

I love my wife,
I miss my wife,
I long for my wife,
I wanted to be near with her everyday...

Yet, there is a reason that somehow it allows...
She is somewhere else...

But my love to her shall never be questioned...

I love you, dear dear...
Jiayou!!

Missing you 3.0

A story between my wife and I...

Do you miss me?

My answer: of course la, this also has to ask meh.. lol...

Do you miss my snoring?

My answer: well, i think my snoring is louder than yours... lol...

Do you miss my kissing?

My answer: malunya... hahaha..

Do you miss my cooking?

My answer: see my size and weight now... lol

Dear dear, jiayou..
I miss you...

Nearer 2.0

We are nearer through Whatsapp
We are nearer through video call
We are nearer through reading blog
We are nearer through prayers

We are nearer through feeling of missing
We are nearer through conversation...
We are nearer because we have Jesus

Dear dear, jiayou..
Love you
Miss you....

Missing you 2.0

Sleeping on the bed without your snoring...
Sleeping on the bed without your jokes..
Sleeping on the bed without your round round tummy.. lol
Sleeping on the bed without your goodnight kiss...
Sleeping on the bed without morning kiss...
Sleeping on the bed without you...

Miss you.. dear dear...
Love you....

Nearer 1.0

Nearer to my wife...
Nearer to her heart..
Nearer to her soul...

Something that we have been contemplating for a while...

Nearer to Singapore
Nearer to workplace..
Nearer to home..

Can i find something next to nearer?
Can i find something beside rather than nearer?

Dear dear..
Jiayou..love you..

Missing you 1.0

I miss you like crazy...
I miss you... your smell.. your cooking..
I miss your kissing...
I miss your humors...
I miss your "kicks"...

I miss you...

But we will be meeting tomorrow...

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you!!

What next 2.0

What's next step..
What's next Lord??

What will happened?
What is prepared?

What I can do?
What I need to do?

Yet, I know He holds the future...
He directs my step...

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you!!!....

Life...

Life is full of anticipations..
Life can be full of anxiety..
Life can be stressful..
Life consists ups and downs..
Life is unpredictable..

Life contains emotion such as joy, missing...and etc..

My current life includes..
Anxiety, missing my darling, joyful, stressful...

But I still want to praise God...
I know He is with me..

Dear dear...i miss you...
I love you...

What's next..

What's next for us...
What's next for you..
What's next for me...
What's next for our future...

Lord, we look up to you for clarity!!
Lord, we look up to you for understanding..
Lord, we look up to you for peace..

In searching for direction...

Dear dear... steady ya..
Love you..

First time..

First time of not celebrating Valentine after 8 years...
First time of not having reunion after 8 years...
First time of not celebrating CNY after 8 years..
First time of not coming back to Sitiawan after 8 years...
First time of driving alone for long hours after 8 years...

Wow... first time after many years...

Yet, it will not stop me from missing and loving you...

Love you, dear dear...

Jiayou...

Miss you

I miss you, dear dear..
I love you, dear dear..

These two are most familiar and popular statements from couples...

It can be misused or misjudged...

But when it draws from our heart, it is well-soothing...

Take care, dear..
Jiayou

Struggles

Yes, we do struggles...

Struggling to grow..
Struggling to adapt..
Struggling to adjust..
Struggling to comprehend..
Struggling to understand..
Struggling to learn...

But God says..
His grace is sufficient...

Dear dear, jiayou...
Love you..

Welcome to 2018

Welcome to 2018...

- A transition year
- A learning year
- A process year
- An adjustment year
- A journey year...
- An anticipating year...
- A wonderful year

Dear dear, jiayou..
Let us be hopeful and joyful in the Lord...

Love you...